Sunday, June 20, 2010

the elephant in the room

So, why is it that when someone decides to leave The Church, it's almost as if she's dead? I mean seriously, my Facebook comments from Church members are down to nearly non-existent. I know what people are saying, because I've heard it all before when others have left. I'm well acquainted with the speculation, attempts at justification and judgment that goes on. Well, you can turn off the microscopes, people. I don't want to be analyzed. If you want to know why I left the Church, the reason is very simple. I just don't care anymore. I simply don't. And I am happy for the first time in years! A weight has been lifted; I no longer feel like I'm being crushed. So, instead of worrying, freaking out, pondering or gossiping, just be happy that I'm happy.

I love you all!

3 holla'd back:

Amy said...

Well, you know I have your back on this issue. And, because I know all too well the weight that is lifted, I am truly happy for you!

The Hoot-Owl Harangue said...

I am happy that you are happy Sandi! I will always support you--I am not to judge... isn't that 1 of the things the Bible says????

Unknown said...

You know I love you. Sorry I've been absent these last couple of weeks. Did you know I had my baby a couple of weeks ago??? How was Virginia?? i read most of your posts. It sounds like it was fabulous.

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